I have been visiting this forum for a while and found it very useful so I hope that I can get some tips to help me sorting out a bad situating I'm put in.
I am from Syria and I got married to a Lebanese man who lives in Switzerland (has the C permit). We got married in 2012 in Egypt because the situation in Syria wasn't really helpful for such a thing. I moved here and brought my son with me (who is 18). First he made me come here as a refugee then he later confirmed our marriage here so that I could move in and with that the migration office would be supposed to give me the B permit. When I was about to get the B permit the migration office asked for his income and other financial details, then I thought that there was something wrong going on so I asked my husband to hire a lawyer so that we could get done faster and the lawyer would inform us about things that we are not aware of. He told me that he hired a lawyer but then after 1 year and a half nothing changed and I found out that he never hired a lawyer. After that the migration office mailed him saying that he no longer can stay in Switzerland and the C permit will be taken away from him. He never told me what was going on or why this was happening so one day he went to work and I translated the mail that he received from the migration and I discover everything that he hid from me. I found out that there were so many bills that he never paid and that he has gotten a huge amount of loan that was due and that he sometimes stole money from people and more than that he wasn't paying any taxes (He owns a company) plus I found bills from my son's school and a letter that says that my son would be no longer able to go to school if he doesn't pay by the end of that mouth. The worst thing ever was when I found out that he was cheating on me too with more than one mistress. After that I told him that I want to divorce, he tried so hard not to divorce but of course I could never be convinced after all what happened. So he moved me to a small apartment with my son and promised me that he will pay the monthly rental of this apartment and that he is going to set up everything for the divorce plus he asked me that when the judge asks me for the reason of why I want to divorce, I would have to say that it is just that we are not comparable and we can't live together. Now of course I don't trust this man nor anything he says so please, I want someone to advise me about what I'm supposed to do because I know nothing about the law in Switzerland, I've been here since two years but he never let me contact with people or learn German.
I am from Syria and I got married to a Lebanese man who lives in Switzerland (has the C permit). We got married in 2012 in Egypt because the situation in Syria wasn't really helpful for such a thing. I moved here and brought my son with me (who is 18). First he made me come here as a refugee then he later confirmed our marriage here so that I could move in and with that the migration office would be supposed to give me the B permit. When I was about to get the B permit the migration office asked for his income and other financial details, then I thought that there was something wrong going on so I asked my husband to hire a lawyer so that we could get done faster and the lawyer would inform us about things that we are not aware of. He told me that he hired a lawyer but then after 1 year and a half nothing changed and I found out that he never hired a lawyer. After that the migration office mailed him saying that he no longer can stay in Switzerland and the C permit will be taken away from him. He never told me what was going on or why this was happening so one day he went to work and I translated the mail that he received from the migration and I discover everything that he hid from me. I found out that there were so many bills that he never paid and that he has gotten a huge amount of loan that was due and that he sometimes stole money from people and more than that he wasn't paying any taxes (He owns a company) plus I found bills from my son's school and a letter that says that my son would be no longer able to go to school if he doesn't pay by the end of that mouth. The worst thing ever was when I found out that he was cheating on me too with more than one mistress. After that I told him that I want to divorce, he tried so hard not to divorce but of course I could never be convinced after all what happened. So he moved me to a small apartment with my son and promised me that he will pay the monthly rental of this apartment and that he is going to set up everything for the divorce plus he asked me that when the judge asks me for the reason of why I want to divorce, I would have to say that it is just that we are not comparable and we can't live together. Now of course I don't trust this man nor anything he says so please, I want someone to advise me about what I'm supposed to do because I know nothing about the law in Switzerland, I've been here since two years but he never let me contact with people or learn German.